The Goal of our Life

 A goal is an objective or target that someone is trying to reach and achieve. It is an aim that we work towards with all your efforts and determination. There are three types of goals- process , performance and Outcome. They have a linear relationship. If you achieve your process goal they have good chance to achieve your performance goal and similarly if you achieve your performance goal you have better chance  to achieve outcome goal. Set SMART(Specific, Measurable, Attainable , Relevant, Time Based )goal to give you the best chance of success.

There are some goal ideas that bring a change in your life and focus on personal growth and good life.

1)  Pursue equanimity in yourself:- 
Equanimity is defined as peak calmness and composure no matter what life is throwing at you. The best way to find equanimity is to practice yourself in tough situation again and again.

2) Travel as often as you can:-
Travel not only opens your mind but also it helps to interact with new people, new culture and new experience. It also helps you to grow as a person by reminding you that there is more life outside your comfort zone area , outside your own personal bubble making this one of the best goals in life to set.

3) Practice Mindfulness:-
Mindfulness is most effective when it is practiced daily. just sit and simply pay attention to your surrounding and your thoughts and its done. there are several things that we can practice like 
1) start a gratitude and self love journal 
2) try to do some meditation and breathing exercise in a Day.
3) Become a better listener and communicator.
4) Stop Rushing on unnecessary things. 
5) have faith and peace in yourself and your surrounding.

4) Love your life:-
Love your life for what it is not what you think it should be. The only way to love is to just accept whatever life has given to us.

5) Stop Rushing:-
Don't rush yourself for unnecessary things. Try to get yourselves grounded and never compare your life with others. It is your journey your life and your expectation then why to run.

Your Success is what you have attained within

 Success is something that you have to define for yourself, and no one can do it for you. Success could mean a sense of giving back to the world and making a difference. It could mean a sense of accomplishment and career progression. It could mean being able to do the things you love. It could mean being able to provide the best possible upbringing for your children. It’s entirely up to us.

Success doesn’t mean copying what someone else is doing as a metric of your worth. If you use a comparison of achievements as a regular practice, you’re using an unhealthy and toxic practice. STOP that SHIT!

Take a moment. Close your eyes. Imagine your life the way you would like it to turn out. Simply list all the milestones you want to achieve in different areas of your life. List the principles, habits, career path, relationships, and possessions that define this version of you. If you are nothing outside but are happy within, you have all success. So you cannot judge people by their outer circumstances.

It is the moral success which gives more happiness than material success. In moral success , there is a psychological happiness that cannot be taken away by any physical condition.

you can spend all your life making money but it won't produce the long lasting comfort and security you are looking for. In fact, it will bring misery because peace and happiness are in the mind not in things.

Your happiness is your success so don't let anyone to take away your success. Protect yourself from those who try to make you unhappy. when your conscience is clear, when you know you are doing right, you are not afraid of anything. So never look happiness in things because a wealth of happiness is within. Stop comparison and try to live life the way you want to live then that can be called as real success which in within. On this Note, stay happy , be successful, stay blessed.

The Power of Thoughts

Mind Power is one of the strongest and most useful power we possess. This power together with your imagination can create success or failure, happiness or unhappiness , obstacles or opportunities. This depends on our mindset. As our thoughts are, so it our life. weak thoughts hardly have any effect but powerful thoughts can create great changes in anyone's life. No one  else is responsible for you. you alone are responsible for yourself. Just like wind which is invisible but so powerful so as the power of our minds and thoughts. Thoughts are energy though invisible but affect reality. No one else may answer your deed when the final day come. It is you who is responsible for your karma and all your past activities.

Thoughts are like video that plays on the screen of your mind. what you play there determines the kind of life you experience. To make changes in our life, we have to play different videos. It is our thoughts that affects our subconscious mind which in turn influences our actions accordingly. Inner peace and strength will come when we think positively and our attention and enthusiasm makes our thoughts simple , clear and powerful. Powerful and mindful thoughts affect our life and it can affect other life as well so always be careful what you think. it is the thought that brings happiness and that makes our life live in heaven or hell. 

So, Always try to live in present and rule your life with positive mindset otherwise it will create a mess if you imagine more about future or think too much about past.  As per personal experience, I am saying so. when we are alone we always be calm and and to deep down your thoughts in that way so that it motivates you to do something good. On this Note , try to create good memories , always think positive , never try to rule your mind on you and stay happy and stay blessed.

Heaven is within , Not in Things

 The word for heaven in Greek can be translated as sky. It is not something that exist eternally but part of creation. we should  be grateful for everything that came to us. With all that you have we should always be thankful to god. Our wants are endless. Day by day our desire become this and that and it is like a endless trap. the thing is that it is not wrong to have possession but it is wrong to be possessed by possession. we must be free of attachment. 

My heaven is within me. whether is a heaven or other place , it is because of my inner heaven that makes it more beautiful to live and enjoy. without that inner contentment and peace even a paradise on earth or somewhere else it will become a hell for us. The greatest enemy of happiness is selfish desires. even you get them but still not happy. when we buy something new it will give me happiness but still it's an illusion because when the newness of that thing ends we forget about that and then we again want something new.so it is like a loop and moreover like a trap.

Control your life , make it simple as you can. Have money in the bank for needs and emergencies what i have learned from my husband. Save more than you spend and never spend on unnecessary things and try to be like you are earning for someone else. whether you are living on the surface or you are depth inside the sea always believe in yourself and keep faith  in God. Never become the slave of anything whether it is material thing or your thoughts or money. Try to run your life by yourself only.  On this note keep your thoughts clear stay in peace and stay happy.

Life should be Simplified

 If you analyze objectively the ideology of human behavior, you would see how humorous some of our habits and customs are. Once in a while it is good to get away from conformity to a monotonous schedule. To be methodical and efficient is commendable but to become very organized is detriment to happiness.

In India, homes are simple ,dress is simple. Here ,life is so complicated that happiness flies away while you are trying to do certain things in a certain way or manner. why complicate life by insisting table must be just so, house must be just so. when we invite people to our home , everyone dances with joy. They enjoy that moment to the fullest. 

Life should be simple ; dress should be clean and simple; eating should be simple. I used to think it was so economical to eat in a restaurant but once in a while . My principle of life is so simple Live and let live. Do the things with as much simplicity as you can. what I  have learned from my husband that be as much simple and be the minimalist. own only that things that is necessary for your living. then life will automatically become easy. on this note stay happy be happy.